July 22, 2017

How to grow your business and REALLY enjoy the process!

If you want to grow your business, your network and your influence AND enjoy the process, there is a powerful idea I would like to share with you.

It’s simply this: Be helpful, often

Think of it like this:

  • The process of giving and receiving starts with the giving part.
  • The process of sowing and reaping, starts with the sowing part.
  • The process of cause and effect, starts with the cause part.

By consistently looking for opportunities to help your clients and your prospective clients, you put a series of processes into play, which improves how people feel about you. As business is all about people, improving the way people feel about you has a measurable, positive impact on your business (and your life.)

Looking for ways to connect people, share ideas, open opportunities, etc, can become a natural part of your day. It takes surprisingly little time to share an interesting newsletter with your contacts. It takes even less time to share a blog post you think they will find helpful.

Even if you want to help thousands of people every day, you can do it without it eating into too much of your day. Here’s how it works!

Being helpful scales to infinity

Thanks to the technology at our fingertips, being helpful scales. In fact, it scales beautifully. Using what I call the one-to-many approach, you can help dozens, hundreds or thousands of people every day.

It works like this: You invest one piece of your time, which helps many people.

An obvious example of this one-to-many approach, is blogging. The reason I write for you on Jim’s Marketing Blog and via the email version of the site, is that it allows me to be helpful to many people, using just one block of my time. In the time it would take me to reply to one specific email for marketing help, I can be of service to many people.

The helpful mindset

It’s also easy to be helpful every day, using a one-to-one approach. When you adopt the mindset that looks for ways to be helpful, it becomes a natural part of your routine. For instance, just before I wrote this, I introduced 2 people I know to one another. It took minutes.

Now, sometimes you will help someone and they will ignore it. They won’t even say thanks. That’s all about them… not you. You cannot allow people with no class, to stop you from shining. You can’t allow the ignorant minority to knock you off route. You need to understand that some people are just like that, then when it happens, accept it and move on. You can’t use the mindset of that thankless minority as an excuse not to lead the way, through your contribution.

The payback?

Firstly, running a business from a mindset of contribution is a lot more fun.

Secondly, it’s an extremely rewarding and effective way to grow your business. That’s because people are attracted to those who help and encourage them.

For instance, I get client inquiries all the time, from people I have helped with the marketing ideas I freely share. My readers know me. They value my work. They also appreciate the time I take, to help, support and encourage them. When they decide it’s time to get serious and give their business the professional marketing help it needs, they know they can trust me, so they get in touch.


As with anything in life, balance is required. There is a world of difference between being helpful and being a doormat. If you think you are helping people by doing lots of unpaid work for them, you are not. You are being taken advantage of.

When people email me and selfishly expect me to work for them, for free, and solve their marketing problems, I won’t do it. Why? Because for me to do the research required, put some ideas together and then get them written up and sent to them, would take me hours. I could invest that same time, helping thousands of people using my one-to-many approach. It’s also a selfish request, which shows no respect for me or the value of my time.

The key is to create the balance that works for you.

In closing

Make being helpful a natural part of your work flow. This means being prepared to give before you receive and accepting that some people will not even say thanks.

Help as many people as you can via the one-to-many approach, as this scales to infinity without cutting into much of your working day. Write useful content for your blog or newsletter. Post something useful to Twitter, Facebook, Linkedin or Google+. People value how helpful you are. They value it enormously.

In short: If you are not receiving enough right now… give more. Do it often.


About Jim Connolly 93 Articles
Jim Connolly has worked in marketing for 24 years and had his own successful marketing business since the mid 1990's. Jim is known worldwide for his ability to help small businesses make massively more sales and boost their profits. Although Jim now works exclusively with small businesses, he has worked with people from some of the best known companies in the world. These include; The BBC, Disney, Rothschilds, Mitsibishi, Hewlett Packard, Edelman and AWD PLC plus many more. To see how he can help your small business, visit his blog at Jim's Marketing Blog.

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